tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-238197560535024815.post6930524822934019581..comments2023-10-31T05:11:53.443-07:00Comments on Brown Eyed Girl and Money: CalmerEsmehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08247120027986055381noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-238197560535024815.post-55187023312645226862008-11-22T09:00:00.000-08:002008-11-22T09:00:00.000-08:00Once you talk to your Aunt, you'll know how to bes...Once you talk to your Aunt, you'll know how to best help her (lump sum vs. instalments). <BR/><BR/>Looks like your breaking the cycle of how your family deals with money.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-238197560535024815.post-79777933229171887002008-11-22T07:19:00.000-08:002008-11-22T07:19:00.000-08:00I read your last few posts regarding helping your ...I read your last few posts regarding helping your Aunt. That is a very generous and unbelievable gift you are going to give! I am glad to hear that you will be giving your Aunt the money to help her float for the time she takes off for school-DIRECTLY!<BR/><BR/>Your family sounds like they have had a rather "interesting" relationship with money. Kudos to you for managing to not get caught up in that mess... It is impressive you have done so well!<BR/><BR/>Is there anyway you can discuss this financial payment more in depth with your Aunt? I don't quite understand why your Mother is meddling and bargaining with you over how much you should give her. It is YOUR money and YOU decide when and how much you give to anyone! <BR/><BR/>Honestly, do you even know for sure that she needs that much? Have you seen a budget to know that this cash will be wisely used? Is there any plan for repayment? Just a few questions I would have before I signed anything. <BR/><BR/>Seriously though, congratulations on arriving at a place in your life where you can help those who helped you. I hope it all works out for the best.<BR/><BR/>For what its worth,<BR/><BR/>MGBMissGoldBughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14784602769316480627noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-238197560535024815.post-67059365134443943002008-11-22T06:07:00.000-08:002008-11-22T06:07:00.000-08:00Maybe you don't have to give it all at once so tha...Maybe you don't have to give it all at once so that it's not that hard on you? Maybe like $2000/month??<BR/><BR/>So that it depletes slowly and isn't a big cheque at once?<BR/><BR/>Just thinking.FB @ FabulouslyBroke.comhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12966672580040786485noreply@blogger.com